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Love is not a relation …. LOVE RELATES!!
Love is like a chemical reaction in the brain …. Chain of reactions … resulting in N number of feelings … likeness, lust, desire, passion, attraction, falling and giving up … comes to everyone in just different phases … n uncertain order.
It’s the dedication and commitment that makes love last forever. The dedication and commitment has to come in package with freedom. Freedom for the other half. Commitment for self. When it happens on both the end it’s a heavenly union.
LOVE IS FREEDOM!!
Jealousy and possessiveness are the opposite of love. They are bondage, obsession. Insecurity in not related to LOVE… insecurity exists where there is no love. Jealousy and possessiveness shout a loud, that we are insecure, uncertain, and doubtful.
Love is a creative and constructive emotion and jealousy and possessiveness and negative. Can the two be ever related???
Many mythologies come across calling LOVE a GOD. Love is so pure. Love is so divine. Love is a feeling some oneness. Love is a feeling of being complete. Love is universe. Love has only one direction … OUTWARD!!
Love flows from with, flows out. You can never get enough of love. Love is not receivable. You give love. You get it. The more you give the more you get. The question how? I said love has only one direction. So very true. You give love… give all that you have. The space to receive is created. You don’t take love it flows into you. How?? It flows in the other end. So well is it said over and over again … and I repeat…. THE MORE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU GET.
Love is PEACE!!
Don’t tie love into a knot, a knot of relation. Don’t try and conquer love by possession or jealousy. Love and let the love be. Let the love be free. Love with all the freedom, for the other. Give love. Give more love. Once you are all filled with love inside out you will be at peace.
April 6th, 2008 at 10:35 am
Beautiful, and so true.
I try to give love as much as I can, and you have described the type of love I know I seek.
Maybe this is the year I eventually find it.
April 8th, 2008 at 12:27 pm
What about love and pain? you haven’t mentioned anything about that.
April 8th, 2008 at 1:03 pm
Hmmm … a thought … i’ll get back in details of the relation of love and pain.
For now… love is like zero, complete. In Hindi I’ll say sampurn ( ??????? ). Love has nothing to do with the pain.
Like zero love has no value and without love there is noting, like without zero there will be no 10, 100, 1000, ,millions, billions and so on … without zero our numbers will be incomplete, it all depends on the zero. It all depends on LOVE. Love is independent.
April 8th, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Love is just a word.
April 8th, 2008 at 2:26 pm
Words make sentence and give meaning to expressions. So does love gives meaning to your living.
April 12th, 2008 at 11:26 am
HI, ITS MY FAVT TOPIC U KNOW WELL. I LOVED READING UR ARTICLE ON LOVE.
BUT IS LOVE THE SOURCE OF LIFE AND SECURITY?????
April 13th, 2008 at 8:32 pm
Hmmm…
@ Anon – Love and pain
Very interesting love is all about betrayal (bewafai) and pain. When there is pain there is insecurity. Very natural.
Love is not in secure in any way. Something not easily imaginable nor understandable to people in common, but love needs to be understood as love itself. Many things are interrelated and dependent, yet not incomplete. All are individual entities. By all I mean the pain and insecurity and so many other emotions that are related to love.
Love has been niched, segmented and narrowed to strong likeness for someone or something. In this strong likeness we are bound, enslaved. Love is FREEDOM. Where as love is very broad. Love for an Ant, love for arts, love for mother, love for freedom. Love is a passion that comes packed with joy. Positive and creative. The DIVINE LOVE.
The love I’ve talked about, all seems so happy go lucky. So, why there is pain, sorrow and insecurity?
Love is enlightment. Love is vision. Pain is loss of the vision. Sorrow is loss of confidence. Here comes the insecurity in love. You fall out of love. It becomes very difficult to except that once in love and now out of love. You can’t accept it to yourself. What will she/he say? What will the people say?
“For mind is restless, turbulent, obstinate and very strong,” says Arjun to Sri Krsna. Arjun further says controlling the wind is easier than to subdue the mind. Mind is constantly looking for gratification. As you live in martial world we seek satisfaction in anything that comes across. Humans are forgetting the humanness. Being human is loving.
You look for the same sense of satisfaction and demand gratification from love. This demand is the want. You want so you take, forgetting love is all about giving. TO GIVE LOVE IS TO GET LOVE.
The more you give the more fulfilled you will be. Because you are giving you fear no loss. No pain, no worries…. And no feeling of insecurity.
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There is lot more to talk about love. So much more I can say. But, I love in this martial world too… and so time is my limit. The more I find people interacting the more will I be encouraged to some up with all my thoughts.
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April 13th, 2008 at 9:16 pm
@ Limit - Love source of life and security.
answer will be no. Love is not a source … not a source of gratification you want in life. Nither a source for security. But love can eliminate insecurity.
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June 18th, 2008 at 10:48 am
Is it right to expect something in love?Is love second name of compromise? the more I give the more I expect in Love. how to overcome this
June 21st, 2008 at 12:21 pm
Dear D D
Love is all about giving. Giving is all about giving, not receiving. The hope of receiving in love neutralises your giving. The more you want back the more you shrink. Love never has any adverse effects. Love is joy. Love is GOD. In every faith love has been related and equated to God. Love is so supreme. How can the divine ever hope for returns? The divine is whole, one. So is love complete in itself. Love needs no receiving.
The desire to receive back what we give is the game of the brain. What we call in Hindi ‘mann’, ‘maya’, meaning the uncontrolled worldly desires. The spiritual man has his command over the desires. The better man doesn’t get distracted by his desires.
Now the desired can very smoothly over take any human being, we are greedy and need instant gratification. Love is a smooth and slow process. Love is no sudden magic. Love needs to be felt with patience. Go slow. Learn to smile more often. May be looking into the mirror and smiling at your own self, makes you feel different. In a course of time you’ll begin to feel the change in you.
The first step towards your true loving and overcoming the expectations to receive is think about the joy giving love brings and not what it would feel if you got the love back.
June 21st, 2008 at 12:44 pm
Love is not second the name for compromise:
Love is not a compromise. Love is plain and simple. Love has no highs no lows. Love is one. Love has no types.
Compromises come with the desires. Compromises have to be made with the want. You want and you want. You have expectations. You have an illusion in your mind. Compromise has to be made to the greed.
You want a smile back every time you look at the person you love. You don’t get one. You are still with your loved one feel in a compromise of not receiving a smile back every time. Has love played any role in the compromise? Has love demised in itself if the smile was not received? No! Love is as it is. It is the desire, the want, the expectation of receiving the smile back that has fallen apart.
Never love to be loved back
Never for receiving back
Let your heart float in love
Let your heart be the dove
Let the broken dreams fall apart
Let the love glow in your heart
Smile and see the world smile
Smile to yourself till you die